The Fab Femme

Small town double life….

When you live in a small town being “out and proud” can be more challenging than it is in a bigger city like San Francisco or NYC. If one person finds out your gay everyone in the town knows within 48 hours. Now imagine 80 percent of the town being homophobic. This is a reality [...]

Tyrese thinks that black women dont want black men because most black men are on the DL

I’m you look for the word “simple” in the dictionary you may see a photo of Tyrese Gibson next to it. This morning I saw a blog post on NecoleBitchie.com that made me want to take my laptop and throw it clear across the room. Apparently Tyrese feels like one contribution to the demise of [...]

Fact or Fiction | Only African American men are on the DL

When majority of people in society hear the phrase “down low” they automatically assume that the parties involved are black, gay, and live somewhere in Atlanta Georgia. While this is a typical assumption its not always the case. Believe it or not African American men are NOT the only men who are struggling with their [...]

Eddie Long wants his money back….

Ok. I saw this on my girl Miss Jias site and all I could say was “what the hell?” Here’s the tea. Bishop Eddie Long is requesting a “refund” from two of the young men who sued him and settled out of court last year after bringing charges against him for coercion. Long is requesting [...]

Old School Music Video: Peggy Scott- Bill (And His Boyfriend)

 This video is HILARIOUS. I dont think its meant to be but it tickles me everytime I watch it. Bill is a classic video about a man having a DL relationship with another man named “Bill.” Check out the video below and enjoy!

Lesbian author Tajah Burton talks about dating Reggie Bush and Down Low men in the industry

Bossip.com released the second interview with lesbian author Tajah Burton and talked about everything from dating Reggie Bush to dating a man who she later found out was on the downlow. Tajah’s book Low Down Dirty Shame is going to be AMAZING. I cant wait! Click HERE to read the first part of her interview [...]

A true story about the DL♥

  A few years back there was I guy I was really interested in and we messed around off and on four a while. He was the guy on campus EVERY girl wanted. Athletic, handsome, tall, in a frat…..what more can a girl in a college town ask for?!Despite all the good qualities about this [...]